One thing I was trying to say with that post is that it’s unwise to choose who to date based on stereotypes about demographic characteristics like age.

The case for admitting when I'm wrong
It usually takes me a lot longer to disavow my previous work. But in the case of The case for marrying someone you vibe with, I already don’t like it and want to apologize. Generally speaking, I have no problem saying unpopular things or pissing people off. If anything, I’m a little too comfortable with conflict.
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