Then imagine another guy reading about this first guy and concluding that obviously monogamy is making him upset and he should quit it immediately and also everyone else should quit it because it’s bad for society.

Monogamy stans stay obsessed with sex
I was so mad when I saw the buzz for More: A Memoir of an Open Marriage. I seethed with jealousy. I had an open relationship. Why wasn’t I a bestselling author? I saw author Molly Roden Winter profiled in the New York Times and thought, well of course NYT readers see more of themselves in a wealthy, hetero, married Brooklynite than in a southern queer sex worker. I felt better. Also, there was the small matter of her having actually written her memoir.
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